There’s a time and place for Urban Dictionary. This may be one of those times. From said dictionary:
When someone says that they’re leaving and you could really give two shits less that they are. Their name then becomes “felicia”, a random bitch that nobody is sad to see go. They’re real name becomes irrelevant because nobody cares what it really is. Instead, they now are “felicia”.
Now, think of this-social media may have made us crazy. We forget to unfriend our former dates, lovers, etc. and in turn, we get to see crap they post. We’re not stalking them, it’s that we have ‘SQUIRREL’ Syndrome, where something else catches our eye. Or you’re like me, I have well over 20 tabs open on my browser. I’m easily distracted. And nothing tragic nor dramatic has truly happened with any of my most recent relationships or dates. At least nothing I can think of-more than likely, and I know I do, you feel like this when you see someone post dumb crap that you know is a complete falsehood:
Let them live their lie. It’s not so huge that it should even be a lie. It’s more of a fib. And they aren’t hurting you, they’re hurting themselves. People bullshit themselves so they don’t feel so bad about the actions they’ve taken.
So there is some dating and some life advice. Ask yourself, “does this really matter?”
I bet it doesn’t.
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